Unwearied In Prayer

Introduction

Charles Swindoll tells the following story.

I told them I got married at age 31. I didn't worry about getting married; I left my future in God's hands. But I must tell you, every night I hung a pair of men's pants on my bed and knelt down to pray this prayer:

"Father in heaven, hear my prayer, and grant it if you can; I've hung a pair of trousers here, Please fill them with a man."

The following Sunday I read that humorous letter to our congregation and they enjoyed it immensely. I happened to notice the different reactions of a father and his teenaged son. The dad laughed out loud, but the son seemed preoccupied. On that particular Sunday the mother of this family had stayed home with their sick daughter. Obviously neither father nor son mentioned the story, because a couple of weeks later I received a note from the mother:

"Dear Chuck,

I am wondering if I should be worried about something. It has to do with our son. For the last two weeks, I have noticed that before our son turns the light out and goes to sleep at night, he hangs a woman's bikini over the foot of his bed...Should I be concerned about this?"

I assured her there was nothing to worry about. And I am pleased to announce that the young man recently married so maybe the swimsuit idea works.

Today, the parable that we will study teaches several powerful lessons about prayer. It is found in the book of Luke where Dr. Luke wrote about widows and politicians, Pharisees and publicans, little children and adults, rich men and beggars. The lessons they teach us are important. Our passage this morning focuses on a demanding widow.

Turn with me to Luke 18:1-8. Luke mentions widows more than do all the other Gospel writers combined (Luke 2:37-38; 4:25-26; 7:11-17; 18:1-8; 20:45-47; 21;1 -4). In that day, widows usually had a difficult time making ends meet, in spite of the care God instructed His people to give them (Exodus 22:22-24; Deuteronomy 14:28-29; 16:9-15; Psalm 146:9; Isaiah 1:17, 23; Jeremiah 7:6). The early church was serious about the care of Christian widows (Acts 6:1; I Timothy 5:3-10; James 1:27), a good example for us to follow today.

As you study this parable, try to see it in its Eastern setting. The "courtroom" was not a fine building but a tent that was moved from place to place as the judge covered his circuit. The judge, not the law, set the agenda, and he sat regally in the tent, surrounded by his assistants. Anybody could watch the proceedings from the outside, but only those who were approved and accepted could have their cases tried. This usually meant bribing one of the assistants so that he would call the judge's attention to the case.

The widow had three obstacles to overcome. First, being a woman she, therefore, had little standing before the law. In the Palestinian society of our Lord's day, women did not go to court. Since she was a widow, she had no husband to stand with her in court. Finally, she was poor and could not pay a bribe even if she wanted to. No wonder widows did not always get the protection the law was supposed to afford them!

Now that we understand something of the setting of this parable, we can better understand what Jesus was teaching. Basically, He was encouraging His disciples to pray, and He did this by presenting three contrasts.

I. There Is Praying Contrasted With Fainting (v.1).

While our text uses the phrase, "give up," the older versions use the word "faint." In other words, if we do not pray, we will faint! It is as simple as that. The word faint or give up describes a believer who loses heart and gets so discouraged that he or she wants to quit. Have you ever been in that place? Are you there right now?

There is a connection between what our Lord said in Luke 18:1 and His statement in Luke 17:37. If society is like a rotting corpse, then the "atmosphere" in which we live is being slowly polluted, and this is bound to affect our spiritual lives. But when we pray, we draw on the "pure air" of heaven, and this keeps us from fainting or giving up.

But what does it mean "always to pray" or to "pray without ceasing?" (1 Thessalonians 5:17). It certainly doesn't mean that we should constantly be repeating prayers, because Jesus warned against that kind of praying (Matthew 6:5 -15). Rather it means to make prayer as natural to us as our regular breathing. Unless we are sick or smothering, we rarely think about our breathing. We just do it. Likewise with prayer, it should be the natural habit of our lives, the "atmosphere" in which we constantly live.

Prayer is much more than the words of our lips. It is the desires of our hearts, and our hearts are constantly "desiring" before Him even if we never speak a word. So, to "pray without ceasing" means to have such holy desires in our hearts, in the will of God, that we are constantly in loving communion with the Father, petitioning Him for His blessing.

Take your choice: do you want to pray - or faint?

II. There Is The Widow Contrasted With God's People (vs.2-5).

Jesus did not say that God's people are like this woman. In fact, He said just the opposite. Because we are not like her, we should be encouraged in our praying. He argued from the lesser to the greater: "If a poor widow got what she deserved from a selfish judge, how much more will God's children receive what is right from a loving Heavenly Father!"

Consider the contrasts. To begin with, the woman was a stranger, but we are the children of God, and God cares for His children (Luke 11:13). The widow had no access to the judge, but God's children have an open access into His presence and may come at any time to get the help they need (Ephesians 2:18; 3:12; Hebrews 4:1416; 10:19-22).

The woman had no friend at court to help get her case on the docket. All she could do was walk around outside the tent and make a nuisance of herself as she shouted at the judge. But when Christian believers pray, they have in heaven a Savior who is an Advocate (I John 2:1) and High Priest (Hebrews 2:17-18), who constantly represents them before the throne of God.

When we pray, we can open the Word and claim the many promises of God , but the widow had no promises that she could claim as she tried to convince the judge to hear her case. We not only have God's unfailing promises, but we also have the Holy Spirit, who assists us in our praying (Romans 8:26-27).

Perhaps the greatest contrast is that the widow came to a court of law, but God's children come to a throne of grace (Hebrews 4:14-16). She pled out of her poverty, but we have all of God's riches available to us to meet our every need (Philippians 4:19). The point is clear: if we fail to pray, our condition spiritually will be just like that of the poor widow. That should encourage us to pray!

III. There Is The Judge Contrasted With The Father (vs.6- 8)

Unless you see that Jesus is pointing out contrasts, you will get the idea that God must be "argued" or "bribed" into answering prayer! God is not like this judge for God is a loving Father, who is attentive to our every cry, generous in His gifts, concerned about our needs, and ready to answer when we  call. The only reason the judge helped the widow was because he was afraid she would "weary" him, which literally means "give me a black eye" - i.e., ruin his reputation. God answers prayer for His glory and for our good, and He is not vexed when we come.

How, then, do we explain delays in answers to prayer, especially when Jesus said that God would "avenge (give them justice) speedily?" (Luke 18:8). Remember that God's delays are not the delays of inactivity but of preparation. God is always answering prayer, otherwise Romans 8:28 could not be in the Bible. God works in all things at all times, causing all things to work together to accomplish His purposes. The moment we send Him a request that is in His will (see I John 5:14-15), God begins to work. We may not see it now, but one day the answer will come.

The question in Luke 18:8 ties in with what Jesus taught in Luke 17:22-37: "Shall He find [that kind of] faith on the earth?" The end times will not be days of great faith.

Eight people were saved in Noah's day, and only four out of Sodom (and one of them perished on the way). Passages like I Timothy 4 and II Timothy 3 paint a dark picture of the last days.

How is your prayer life? I am convinced that it is one of the areas of greatest frustration for most believers. Some would say that it is the area of tithing. Some say it is the area of witnessing.

However for the vast majority, it is the maintaining of a prayer life, which is powerful, consistent, and fulfilling. This parable teaches us much about prayer. Please understand the contrast portrayed in this passage. While there is a need for importunity, which means urgent or repeated asking to show one's seriousness (this is taught in other passages), God is not a God who needs to be harassed like a secular, frail human being. God wants to hear from you. He wants an intimate relationship in which he hears from a friend. Is that the way it is with you?