The Biggest Little Troublemaker in the World

Bible Book: James  3 : 1-12
Subject: Tongue; Speech; Words
Series: James - Minnix - Believing and Behaving
[This sermon is one in a series of 10 messages from the Book of James entitled: Believing and Behaving.]

The Biggest Little Troublemaker in the World

Dr. J. Mike Minnix, Editor, www.pastorlife.com
Introduction

James 3:1-12

The tongue is a great gift, for it gives us the ability to speak and share ideas with words and is something given specifically to human beings. But, we must remember that "to whom much is given, much is required." The tongue carries with it a great responsibility and we are told that we shall answer to God for every idle word we have spoken. Why would God judge every idle word? Words will be judged because the tongue wields great power. Proverbs 18:21 reminds us that the tongue holds the power of life and death.

It is truly amazing how many words we speak in a lifetime. Someone said that we speak between 10 million and 11 million words a year. If you live to the age of 90, you will perhaps speak 1 billion words. Watch out! Don't turn and look at your spouse as if he or she is trying to break the world record for words spoken in a lifetime. I expect some of us do know people that we suspect do exceed the 11 million words a year mark.

Calvin Coolidge, former president of the United States, was known for being a man of few words. A lady sat next to him at a state dinner one evening and sought to win a bet she had made with a friend. She wagered that she could get the president to speak more than three words to her during the meal. She leaned over to President Coolidge and said, "I bet my friend that I could get you to speak more than three words to me this evening. What do you think of that?" Coolidge replied, "You lose," and never spoke to her again throughout the meal. Coolidge never got in trouble with the use of his tongue.

President Obama said several times, during the debate over the healthcare act, that his proposal guaranteed participants that they will be able to  keep their doctor and their health insurance provider. It turned out that it wasn't true. His words came back to haunt him.

Its not just presidents that must be careful with their words. Everyone of us, no doubt, has discovered that the tongue has been an enemy at one time or another. The Bible warns us about the use of the tongue and just how dangerous our words can be. One might well call the tongue the biggest little troublemaker in all the world. Someone has remarked that a three inch tongue can easily kill a six foot man! The tongue can be used to slander, blaspheme, betray, gossip, curse, lie, criticize and profane; or, it can be used to bless, encourage, lead, give hope, express love and forgiveness. The potential of the diabolical or the power of the divine lies just behind your teeth.

One man wisely said,

"I am careful of the words I say,

To keep them soft and sweet,

For I never know from day to day,

The ones I'll have to eat."

One day a lady went to the doctor. She talked non-stop about her pains and problems. Finally the doctor told her to stick out her tongue, which she obediently did. The doctor never looked at her tongue, he just turned to his desk and starting writing a prescription. The woman finally said, "Doctor, why did you tell me to stick out my tongue but never looked at it?" The doctor replied, "I just wanted you quiet long enough to get this prescription written."

Good things come to those who know when to stop talking. Edison was once asked how it felt to be the man who created the talking machine. He replied, "I didn't create the talking machine, God did. I just made one you can turn off!"

James speaks of being very careful as teachers. The Jewish Rabbi was greatly respected in the days of the Bible. Many in the Christian church wanted that esteem for themselves. James warns them to be careful, for a greater judgment will be given those who are teachers.

James goes on to discuss the tongue. He states that the human tongue no man can control. Lets take a look at The Biggest Little Troublemaker in the World.

I. The Inclination of the Tongue

A. The Internal Forces Affecting the Tongue - the Horse

The bit is placed “in” the mouth of the horse in order to turn from left to right, or to stop the horse. The tongue is controlled from an internal source. You speak because you think. You think with your heart. As a man thinks in his heart, so is he. If you would control your tongue, you must then be in control of your heart.

The inclination of the tongue is to be loose and uncontrolled. There must be a force within us that guides our words. That force must be God, in the person of the Holy Spirit. The Spirit of God, when we yield properly, can be the bit in our mouths that turns us in the way God wishes us to go and the Holy Spirit can silence or release our tongue at the proper time.

B. The External Forces Affecting the Tongue - the Rudder

A ship of enormous size can be controlled by a small rudder. In both illustrations that James gave us, we see the overcoming of powerful forces by a small object. The horse is directed, and a ship is directed, by small devices. So, the tongue is very important because it gives direction. Though very small, the tongue is a mighty force! One's entire life can be blessed or cursed simply by the correct use or incorrect use of the tongue.

When our son was very small, we were told by doctors that his tongue was a bit too large for his mouth. It was not unusual in children, we were informed, but it was something that would require effort and tools to help him speak properly. He was forced to wear a device that was attached to the back of his upper teeth. Pointed spines were on the device secured in his mouth and they pointed back toward his tongue. When Chris spoke, he had to keep his tongue pulled inward and away from the front of his mouth. If he failed to do this, the spines on the device would prick his tongue. It was a painful process to for him and it was painful for us to observe. Sometimes his tongue would bleed from the difficulty he had in training his tongue to remain further back in his mouth, but the pain paid off. Eventually he became great at speech. In fact, later he was a radio announcer, and has for years was very successful in sales because of his excellent speaking ability. His voice and diction are superb. But, He only achieved that through painful training of his tongue.

It is sad that so few of us will do the same in our spiritual lives for God. We must train out tongue to obey God’s will. We must yield to Him and His will when we speak. Actually, it is certainly easier to train the physical tongue to obey than to train our spiritual tongue to speak only what God has ordained! The fact is, when we do not use our tongue as God ordained, it leads to pain, sorrow and defeat. Sadly, even though hardship comes from the misuse of our tongues, too often we still refuse to allow God to train our tongues and control our speech.

II. The Destruction By The Tongue

A. The Blaze Unleashed

The tongue is destructive, like a fire. There is better chance of stopping a raging fire than stopping the destructive effect of the misuse of the tongue. One rumor can start a fire that a thousands speeches cannot stop.

The tongue is often filled with deadly poison. Words can inject a noxious poison into relationships, destroying lives in the process. Like a poison in the body, the tongue can be deadly.

One man tells of a time when someone shared something negative about another preacher. He said that he got to know the man and found that the rumor about the preacher was untrue. Yet, every time he saw that preacher he recalled those things which were told about him. Even though he knew the rumor was untrue, he could not remove the memory of those words.

Words are like sparks, they fly from our mouths and set blazes that are difficult and sometimes impossible to put out. One evening two ladies were walking by a pastor’s home. They looked through the window and saw the pastor racing around with a broom and heard the preacher’s wife screaming. The ladies hurried home and starting calling all their friends. They shared with their friends that they had witnessed the pastor beating his wife with a broom. By the time the pastor heard the story, it had spread everywhere. The pastor’s wife came to church the next Sunday and stood to tell the church “the rest of the story.” In fact, a mouse had been discovered in the house and she had screamed for her husband to help her. She jumped up on the sofa, screaming the entire time, while her pastor husband chased the mouse with a broom. But, the damage had been done. The story that the pastor was beating his wife had traveled so far and been told with such confidence that three months later the pastor decided to resign. Words had started a blaze of lies that even the truth was not able to extinguish.

B. The Beast Untamed

James also spoke of wild animals as an illustration. The tongue is a restless evil. Wild animals can be tamed, but not the tongue. Killer whales can be tamed, but not the tongue. Lions can be tamed, but not the tongue. The most ferocious beast is not in the Atlanta Zoo but rather has its den in your mouth! A lion let loose in this service would not be as dangerous as your tongue or mine speaking out of control. A black widow spider's venom is not as dangerous as the poison of your tongue.

III. The Contradiction From The Tongue

A. As a Spring Flows

James reveals that the tongue is even contrary to nature. A pure stream will remain pure and a bitter stream will remain bitter. A good fountain is not good one day and poisonous the next. But, our tongue can speak praise to God in one moment and spread a vicious rumor in the next. This is contrary to nature and contrary to God’s will and design.

B. As a Tree Grows

You don't find figs on grape vines, or grapes on fig trees. The tongue, on the other hand, is different. We can use our tongue to bless God and then a few moments later use it to be critical, prejudiced and judgmental of another believer. Just think what it would be like to have a fruit tree that produced good fruit and poison fruit. You can see just how deadly such a tree would be. No one would eat from such a tree for fear that the fruit in hand contained poison. Nature does not produce that kind of tree because God made the fruit trees to yield fruit according to their nature. Humans, however, have a corrupt nature. Even after we are saved and have a new nature, the old man rises up to produce poisonous fruit through our tongue. James is reminding us that this is not God's way and not God's will.

Do you recall that Simon Peter acknowledged Jesus as the Son of God one minute, but then right after that Jesus called him Satan? Surely you remember the story. Peter acknowledged Jesus as the Son of God, he turned around and told Jesus that under no circumstances would he and the disciples allow the Lord to die. Interestingly, Peter was filled with wisdom from on high one moment and filled with lies from hell the next. The contrary nature of this situation revealed itself in Peter’s words – the use of his tongue! Does that happen to you or to me? Sadly, it does. What a shame that is. Even a tree growing in the soil would never contradict its nature or its God, but the human tongue is often in rebellion against its Maker!

Conclusion

How can we overcome the problem of the misuse of our tongues?

Confess the Sin.

We must begin with a true confession of our sin in this matter.

Confess the Source.

We must confess that the source is our own wicked heart. Matthew 12 tells us that the mouth only reveals the heart. That which is in the heart reveals itself when under pressure. The words only come out because they are already in there! James tells us that the tongue is set on fire of hell. Hell is torment. Stored up torment is what is released through the tongue. Are you and I ashamed of allowing our tongues to be set on fire from hell?

James also says that the tongue is filled with deadly poison. The poison is in their heart. James says in verse 15 that worldly wisdom is demonic. When we allow demonic power to influence our hearts it will come out through the tongues! Your tongue is a special target of Satanic activity. The first thing to do is to empty your heart of that poison.

We must confess the source of the problem is our own hearts!

Confess the Solution.

To put our tongue under the control of Jesus is the solution. Confess Jesus Christ as Lord. In Philippians 2 Paul stated that one day all shall confess that Jesus is Lord of all. We must acknowledge Jesus as Lord of our bodies, especially our tongues.

This means that we must be willing to confess evil speaking immediately. Suppose you find yourself gossiping - stop immediately and confess it to God! You will soon find the Holy Spirit taking your tongue under His control. Psalm 140 states, "Deliver my soul from lying lips...".

Ask God to (Psalm 141:3) set a watch over your lips! We are all guilty of misusing words. O, that God would guard our lips!

Let me ask you a question that I asked myself while preparing this message: How long has it been since you began a day by praying like this? "O Lord, I yield my tongue to you today. Keep my words pure by controlling my heart. I wish to speak only those words which reflect Your holy nature today."

Conclusion

Dr. A.B. Simpson was founder of the Christian and Missionary Alliance organization. When he was a pastor in New York, there was another pastor of a very large church that spent a lot of time publicly criticizing Dr. Simpson. Colleagues of Dr. Simpson asked him to speak out and defend himself, but he would not do it. He said on one occasion that he would rather play with forked lightening or take in his hand live wires rather than to speak or repeat a reckless word against a servant of Christ or tell again the slanderous darts which thousands of Christians are hurling on others to the hurt of their own souls and bodies.

Sometime later this minister who had so severely criticized Dr. Simpson was involved in immorality. The story made the headlines of the New York newspapers. One of Dr. Simpson’s co-workers came with a copy of the paper and put it in front of Dr. Simpson. Dr. Simpson read the story of how this man had been found in immorality. The colleague asked Dr. Simpson, "Well, what do you think of that?"

Dr. Simpson simply looked away with tears running down his face and said, "Just think of how he must have been tempted."  Simpson would not say one evil word against the man who had been so cruel to him. Oh, to be like that with our own tongues!

Are you willing to recommit your speech to God today? Of course, there is someone here today who needs to use your tongue to speak the most important words a person can ever speak. Paul wrote, "Whosoever calls upon the name of the Lord shall be saved." Have you called on the Lord? You can do that right now. There is death and life in words, and when you repent of your sins and confess Christ as Lord and Savior, you are speaking words of eternal life. Now is the time. Today is the day.