Building Bridges

[Editor's Note: This illustration comes from Dr. Johnny L. Sanders as shared with him by Wayne Whiteside, a pastor in Louisiana. The illustration deals with the commitment and time it takes to build a bridge to witness to people, especially to people in prison.]On any given day in our lives, we cross the paths of several individuals.People seem to be more cautious and suspicious than ever. And who can blame them? So, usually a witness for Christ during a first time encounter is not so well received.Perhaps you disagree? Let me share a bit about a field that I feel that I know a little about and that is domain of the incarcerated. They are very suspicious, cautious and un-trusting. How do you reach them for Christ?You build bridges. Yes, you build bridges into their lives. It takes time. That bridge is an avenue into their lives.How do you build a bridge into a person's life? Compassion, concern and often by meeting a need.After a bridge is built, there is a connection and one day that person may have an interest to hear of Christ.Several years ago, I befriended an elderly man who visited his son on the row. His health was long gone. He was mobile because of a motorized scooter. His lifeline and security was his ever present portable oxygen tank.We hit if off immediately and became fast friends. I loved his stories. He was generally upbeat unless the subject was his son on the row. He openly wept and lamented over this son. Often he beat himself up over this son's behavior and crime. It did not matter that his other 3 children are law abiding citizens.His son, who was not open to a visit with a minister, saw me on many occasions talking with his dad. I tried reaching out to this young man, but each time he rejected my efforts.The elderly man died a little over a year ago. He was this young man's only visitor. A few months ago this young man began to inquire about my information. I received a call that this young man was interested in a visit.A few weeks ago we had our first visit. It went very well. He thanked me for being his dad's friend. I had no idea that befriending an elderly man would open a door to an inmate.One more thought - we are either building bridges or building walls. How about you?Thanks for your support and prayers.In His Grip,Bro. WayneFor it is the God who commanded light to shine out of darkness, who has shone in our hearts to give the light of the knowledge of the glory of God in the face of Jesus Christ. 2 Corinthians 4:6